Dating Etiquette


When requesting a date, respectful and proper communication goes a long way. A potential caller should never use crude or explicit language. Do not ask me about specific “services” or XYZ acronyms. Doing so will result in me ceasing all communication. It is never appropriate to ask about menu options before a donation is given. Donations are always for my time and companionship ONLY. Anything else that may or may not occur is between two consenting adults and are not previously contracted for, nor should they be requested.

I do not accept or conduct phone calls on my work number. You may contact me either through text or email. If emailing or messaging me directly, please subscribe to use of full sentences and an appropriate greeting. If your message reads like a midnight booty call, I will not respond. However, if English is not your first language, kindly let me know.

Your first communication attempt should always include the basic information requested in my appointment form.

Scheduling a Date

While last minute get togethers are occasionally possible with established friends or on days with cancellations, they are not a guarantee. Please allow sufficient time for screening and communication if you are a new friend, and be understanding of time constraints and personal conflicts if you are a frequent companion. Screening is an essential and mandatory step if you wish to spend time with me. I offer three screening options: 

  1. A P411 account as verification (at least two recent okays preferred) OR
  2. Two references with contact information and listings of ladies seen in the last year OR
  3. A picture of your photo ID and a second photo of you holding your ID next to your face (sensitive info may be blocked out other than your full name and ID number) 

Should you choose to be verified through P411, I offer discounts to current members. If none of my verification options will work for you, we sadly will not be a good match. 

It is understandable that you may be hesitant or nervous about meeting for the first time. If you would prefer to meet in a more casual setting over coffee first, I am more than happy to oblige. However, I would still need to be compensated appropriately for the time we spend together and expect you to still follow the proper decorum for a public meeting.

For local dates, please request an appointment at least 24 hours in advance. Sooner is preferable; I try to respond to requests quickly, but sometimes it will be up to 48 hours before I am able to get back to you. Outcalls more than two hours from Salt Lake: 72 hours is preferred. National flight destinations: 7 days is preferred. International destinations: 2-3 weeks minimum is preferred.

Donation Decorum

For dates longer than three hours, a 50% advance on my allowance is requested. This is so I am able to book time off work without possible financial consequence. You are also welcome to take care of my entire allowance before we meet. I can take donations through PayPal, Venmo, or Snapcash. If there is a more discreet or secure digital payment option you prefer, please let me know and I will do my best to accommodate.

Please have the remaining donation (or full donation in cases of three-hour dates or less) ready at the beginning of our date. If we are meeting in a private residence, have the donation in a white, unsealed envelope and place it somewhere in plain sight. You may then excuse yourself to use the restroom to freshen up. When you re-join me, you will find the donation has quietly disappeared; we can then enjoy the rest of our time together with no further discussion of our arrangement. If we are meeting in a public area, simply tuck the envelope in a small gift bag with tissue paper to avoid unnecessary attention. If you wish to extend our time together and scheduling allows, please have the correct amount of additional funds on hand.

Hygiene and Health

Personal hygiene is imperative for both of us! It is a necessary part of any date. Please come to our meeting freshly bathed, teeth brushed, and deodorant applied. If you would like to quickly shower and wash up at the beginning of our date, that is always especially appreciated. Refrain from smoking, drinking, or partaking in recreational drugs at least four hours before our scheduled date. Any inebriation or strong odors will regrettably result in our time ending prematurely. In return for following these requests, I promise to do the same. I never smoke or do drugs, and I very rarely drink. I will always be freshly showered, shaven, and makeup tailored to your preferences.

I choose to maintain a vegan lifestyle. As such, if our date includes dining out, please be courteous and cognizant of my dietary restrictions. If you’d like suggestions for places I enjoy, I am happy to offer options for any level of dining experience.


Sometimes life can be unpredictable and unforeseen circumstances arise that may conflict with our arranged plans. In the event you need to cancel our date…

  • 5+ days’ notice: your full deposit is refunded minus any applicable travel expenses that have already been paid out.
  • 2-4 days’ notice: and your deposit will be applied towards a future meeting within the next six months. 
  • 24-hour notice: 50% of your deposit is forfeited. The remaining balance minus travel expenses is applied to our next meeting within the next six months.
  • Second cancellation: Full deposit is forfeited.
  • No call/no show*: Entire deposit is forfeited. For dates that did not require a deposit, half of the donation must be given before any future meeting is ever planned.
  • In the instance that I cancel, 100% of your deposit will be refunded within 24 hours.

*Extreme emergency situation can be exceptions, if proper proof of said emergency is provided

Respect and Discretion

I expect mutual respect of autonomy and boundaries, and appreciation of our special time together. I promise I am a quality lady that you will want to have in your company, so please treat me as such.

Regardless of the intimacy or connection we may experience, practicing discretion and respecting each other’s boundaries is always paramount. My time and emotional energy is precious, as I’m sure yours is as well. All amounts of exclusive time spent together should be compensated. We both understand our romantic escape must eventually end, and subsequently we will return to our separate, private lives. Until the next time, that is…